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Have your dh be faithful to you because he loves you or because he's afraid of going to hell?

I know my dh is faithful for both reasons, but if I absolutely had to choose, I don't know which one I would pick lol. Just curious to see what others would choose.

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Asked by nicolemstacy at 11:46 AM on Aug. 29, 2010 in

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  • Because he loves me. We don't believe in Hell, but if we did, I'd rather him be with me because he's happy and loves me rather than be afraid of something.

    Answer by Kiwismommy19 at 11:47 AM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • Well i dont believe in hell so because he loves me and loves God

    Answer by Patience909 at 11:47 AM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • Be faithful because he took that marriage vows.

    Answer by musicmom08 at 11:56 AM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • Because he loves me <3

    Answer by SabrenaLeigh at 11:59 AM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • Because he loves me.

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 12:01 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • Well, I don't believe in Hell, and I highly doubt that has anything to do with his reasoning... So, because he loves me. But really, I want him to be faithful (live within the rules of our relationship) because he's happy that way.

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 12:01 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • He does not believe in God or Hell so I guess he loves me ; )

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 12:42 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • Love. If he was only faithful for fear of going to Hell (which imo is fictional) then we shouldn't be married and he should find someone who he does love enough to want to be faithful to.

    Answer by Octobersmom at 3:05 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • B/c he loves me.

    Answer by renea20 at 3:17 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • Because he loves me and our children, and it was how he was raised. Even though we were both raised strict Roman Catholic and were married in the Catholic Church, we are not active members, however, we live by the morals and values of Catholic teachings, and honor our marriage vows.

    Answer by LoriKeet at 6:32 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

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