I found out last night, my husband has been texting a girl he met on who knows what website, sending naked pictures between each other for the past week with plans to meet up for sex. And another girl he wanted to meet with but she lost interest when she found out his age.
I am heart broken, I didn't sleep last night. I wrote him a letter, put it in his car and acted like everything was normal this morning. He has not called me.
I told him in the letter I want to separate, both of us need to think over the next week or so, no contact. But he is free to call our daughter anytime he wants.
I am a zombie today from the lack of sleep and everything on my mind. I have let my toddler daughter sit in front of the TV all day and I just can't do anything but sit and try not to cry in front of her.
How do I cope? Any tips? Advice?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:16 PM on Aug. 29, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by zackarysmommy at 12:22 PM on Aug. 29, 2010
Answer by bubblycute at 12:25 PM on Aug. 29, 2010
It is hard to function in your situation. you just have to " suck it up" and drive on. Make yourself do things you normally do. What you should be thinking about is, is this bad enough to divorce over or are you going to forgive him for it and stay with him. To me separating is only going to (in his mind ) let him go see these other women freely. My DH and I where talking about friend and his wife once. They separated and he went out and started seeing this other women. His wife got mad. My DH said most guys believe that if you are separated you can mess around. I think you should go tell your DH you do not want to separate. You want to stay together and work it out.
Answer by louise2 at 12:30 PM on Aug. 29, 2010
Answer by GUDMOMMY86 at 12:47 PM on Aug. 29, 2010
Answer by vicesix at 12:47 PM on Aug. 29, 2010
Answer by noahsmommy12908 at 3:07 PM on Aug. 29, 2010
Answer by txdaniella at 4:46 PM on Aug. 29, 2010