Ok so here is my situation my husband loves to listen to his music rap hip hop which i dont mind, he also uses the f word like it's no big deal all the time. it's just that he listens to it in the car with my 9year old step son and I tell him I dont like for him to play that music with suck ugly words. My problem is that we have 2 daughters together and they are still babies but when they start getting a lil older the same thing goes for them too..I don't want to hear those words around them. I feel like our raising ways are different too. I don't like for my stepson to hear those words or sing the songs. Same with movies I do not allow for him to see movies that are about sex or use alot of curse words but when he goes with his real mom or aunt they take him to go see those movies. We have had custody of him since he was 2 1/2 and I feel like I'm stuck what should i doAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 6:44 PM on Oct. 10, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by MarshaB702 at 6:54 PM on Oct. 10, 2008
Answer by melody77 at 6:54 PM on Oct. 10, 2008
Answer by ethan0530 at 7:10 PM on Oct. 10, 2008
First of all get a cuss jar and take it everywhere you guys go and every time he cusses make him deposit $5 and not only will this make him more aware of how often he says that you will have extra money for things you need. You can't protect your children from bad behavior from people just make him an example by saying that is a really ugly word daddy is using it doesn't sound good and make sure to enforce that every chance you can before you know it your kids be correcting daddy bad mouth themselves.
Answer by 1countrygal at 8:10 PM on Oct. 10, 2008