we got married almost 3years ago but when it came to our wedding day it was the worst day of my life. I didn't even see him the whole time he was to busy getting drunk off his a** all night then after the dance instead of going back to our hotel room to be together he wanted to go back to his moms and party . I cried and then left him there. went back to the hotel cried myself to sleep after that we always fight I started working and met this person at work and i started to get to close my spouse and i seperated and ended up prego with the guy from wk. my hubby and i tried are trying to work through this but he still throws it in my face everytime we fight. how can i get him to trust me again and to leave it in the past? now we have a daughter together but I feel like if we dont work out I screwed my first baby out of a dad. her real dad nows about her but wants nothing to do with her.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:08 PM on Oct. 10, 2008 in Relationships
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Answer by admckenzie at 7:29 PM on Oct. 10, 2008
Working through tough times makes your relationship stronger but it is a bumpy ride and you need to set him down and admit to him you did what you did, he did what he did to cause you to and if he can't have a calm adult conversation then honestly you are cheating your children and yourself out of a joy filled life. Some people can't let past/mistakes go,, you need to love yourself enought to tell him how you are deserving of his forgiveness and you would love to work things out but he has to want the same goal for the good of your family. Have him search his entire life and see if there isn't anything he did he wished he hadn't .God is the only one you have to worry about forgiving you we all are human!
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