My very good friend since high school just had a baby and now shes planning a baptism for the baby. I voiced to my DH a few weeks ago that I was hurt that she wasn't considering me for the godmother....I know it's selfish but I never get to do anything special for her...her baby shower I was passed over and insulted by her sisters and pretty much told I could come but they did everything without me. My friend knew how hurt I was by it cause I wanted so badly to do something nice for her cause she did for me when I was pregnant. So I was pretty much over she was going to chose one of her sister for the godmother until today when she asked my husband to be the godfather.... I want him to do it cause its for the baby but he knows how hurt I have been with everything and feels awkward doing this without me. What should we do? And how do I talk to her about his concerns? we're at a lose. Please help! oh and she's my sons godmather.
Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 8:37 PM on Aug. 29, 2010
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Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 8:30 PM on Aug. 29, 2010
I would be hurt to know that she picked your husband for the G-d Father and not you for the G-d Mother. I would calmly ask her has she ever considered yourself as the G-d Mother? I have a G-d Child who I have tried to stay in contact with. I cannot understand how she has blocked you out at all the different stages of the pregnancy and birth, Keep an open mind and heart and perhaps you will get your answers.
Answer by Joeygoat at 8:30 PM on Aug. 29, 2010