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HELP!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO? adult content

Last night I walked in on my 11 yr. old niece having sex with her 12 yr. old neighbor... what should i do if i tell her mother she'll never believe me and if i don't i will never forgive myself. I love my niece but last night i seen another side of her. I think I'm going to be sick.

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Loveem007

Asked by Loveem007 at 9:12 PM on Aug. 29, 2010 in Parenting Debate

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  • You have to tell and you have to report it to the police. It's the law.

    Gailll

    Answer by Gailll at 9:13 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • You have to do the right thing and tell her mom. If she doesn't believe you have her take her to the doctor they can confirm whether she is a virgin or not...
    SWEETPEAS3MOM

    Answer by SWEETPEAS3MOM at 9:13 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • Tell her mom.. Even if she doesn't believe you, she needs to get her daughter on BC before she ends up pregnant.
    2autisticsmom

    Answer by 2autisticsmom at 9:14 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • You act in the best interest of the child - you tell the mother. Whether her mom believes you or not, you have done what is right.
    aliceinalgonac

    Answer by aliceinalgonac at 9:15 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • eleven??? Geez! Heck yeah tell her mom!
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 9:15 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • Tell her mother! Whether she believes you or not!

    Also, are you able to talk to your niece without stepping on toes? If her mother does not take this seriously, some adult should!
    Courtney610

    Answer by Courtney610 at 9:16 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • 11 years old....I have a hindsight talk with her at least...how is she feeling? Does she need anything? then comes the WTF are you thinking talk~
    surfcitymom

    Answer by surfcitymom at 9:16 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • tell her mom
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 9:16 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • ".....you have to report it to the police. It's the law"


    What law??? What exactly are they going to be charged with??? Having sex way to young??? LMAO!!

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:17 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • Oh no... I have a 10 year old niece... that makes me so sad..
    maxsmom11807

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 9:18 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

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