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What should I do????

I told my ex a couple od days ago, that in order for me to get over him I need no contact with him...his Bday is in 2days should I text him "happy bday"??? lolz dont wanna look like an idiot telling one thing and doing another...when we had closure I said happy bday and have a good life!!! what should I do??

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yami10b

Asked by yami10b at 10:14 PM on Aug. 29, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (14)
  • No, you should not contact him.
    hsmominky

    Answer by hsmominky at 10:15 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • dont do it
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:17 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • dont contact him at all.. telling him happy birthday isnt important at al if your looking at the big picture,,, you know that you need him outta your life, so you need to worry about you and your feelings, not his
    momaholly

    Answer by momaholly at 10:18 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • I totally feel you guys, thanks I felt the same way but just needed that push to go with it.....
    yami10b

    Comment by yami10b (original poster) at 10:19 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • Do you have children together? If you do not, don't contact him. It'll send a mixed message. hugs.
    txdaniella

    Answer by txdaniella at 10:20 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • no, just cut all personal ties to him.
    ymadaris2

    Answer by ymadaris2 at 10:20 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • no children with him...
    yami10b

    Comment by yami10b (original poster) at 10:22 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • don't. if you want to be done with him, be DONE with him!
    shaysmommy5810

    Answer by shaysmommy5810 at 10:24 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • I wouldn't.
    bandgeek521

    Answer by bandgeek521 at 10:36 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

  • If you are trying to send him mixed signals, then by all means, send that text. If you are trying to get over him, then maybe it would be better to just leave it alone. I don't think he is expecting you to call him, or text him at all, after what you said. If you text him Happy Birthday, he will respond, and then you will respond, and it just won't end. 

    Punky_1981

    Answer by Punky_1981 at 11:11 PM on Aug. 29, 2010

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