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well my husband and i dont really have a sex life and idk what to do....tried the whole romantic thing he hates it, well he said he can go the rest of hs life without it and i want it alot...he wont eat me out he will barely let me give him oral..when i try to randomely grab him he ALWAYS bocks me. he says he doesnt like sex, when we do it it last literally 5 minutes, he says he has sex with me for me and he fales it....what do i do????????aghhhhhhh

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Asked by christina10140 at 12:56 AM on Aug. 30, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Probably counseling will be your best bet.

    Answer by rhianna1708 at 12:58 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • Honestly, this sounds like a situation that needs counseling. It sounds like there is a deeper issue going on. Good Luck.

    Answer by hsmominky at 1:00 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • Could also be medical.....low testosterone. Talk to his DR

    Answer by dmbutler at 1:02 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • i want to go to counseling he wont!!!

    Comment by christina10140 (original poster) at 1:02 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • when something like that is going on there is some underlying problem maybe you go to counseling first by yourself and ask them what they think

    Answer by amandaeastman at 1:12 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • if not counselling how about a doctor.. he may be having issues and just doesn't want to admit to it to you.. and thus pretends he doesn't want it..

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 1:21 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • or maybe he's surpressing a desire for someone else.. like someone of the opposite sex of you.

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 1:22 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • Man- I'm sorry! Talk to him find out, maybe something is going on in his life that he hasn't told you about, not feeling well-stress at work

    Answer by 40andholding at 1:26 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • i ha he said that he could find better things to occupy his time with other than sex, its not important to him.

    Comment by christina10140 (original poster) at 1:39 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • Did he used to be into sex? I would think there is a problem for him to lose interest like that. IF he does not wan to find solutions that would be cause for concern as well.

    Answer by SylviaNCali at 4:15 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

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