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Would you rather use your toy than your DH/SO?

Maybe your DH/SO is not getting you to climax. Or maybe you have a fav position that he won't try. Maybe he doesn't do oral sex. Whatever the reason does anyone use a sex toy to fulfill unmet needs by their partner?


Asked by Anonymous at 9:08 AM on Aug. 30, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (12)
  • I find it hysterical that everyone here is saying they don't use toys when TONS of my girlfriends talk about how sometimes it's nice to just use their toy instead of do the whole sex thing...i think obviously if it was their man vs. a vibrator, they'd pick their man (as would i) but if you're horny and he's not around (or maybe conflicting schedules, kids, jobs, etc get in the way) i think there's nothing wrong with using a toy- used to think so, but not anymore..

    Answer by lexi8622 at 2:39 PM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • Nope. I honestly don't even have sex toys lol... I prefer the feel of skin :P

    Answer by Mom2unangel at 9:14 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • No toys .. Never owned any either 23 years of marriage he's doing just fine.

    Answer by MTM at 9:22 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • Hitachi Magic Wand. Can be your friend and his.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:24 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • I don't own any toys. So nope.

    Answer by reigndrops12689 at 9:32 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • I use my fiance!! he he!

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 9:38 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • Yes

    Answer by MamaJen74 at 9:46 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • I use my boyfriend. I have toys but only so he can use them on me and then after I still end up finishing with him.

    Answer by Tab2 at 10:30 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • Nope I prefur my DH. Now there was a time I didn't but I was having issues.

    Answer by DevilInPigtails at 10:37 AM on Aug. 30, 2010

  • Nope have never owned any toys and dont right now...My DH is Wonderful in bed we always look for new ideas:) So nope

    Answer by Momie09 at 10:42 AM on Aug. 30, 2010