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when you are in a marriage and you tell someone its over does it give a right to go outside the union even when you are not divorced yet

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lightbright2004

Asked by lightbright2004 at 11:12 PM on Oct. 10, 2008 in Relationships

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  • It would depend on the person. If the marriage is truly over and you are working on getting the divorce, I see no reason why you couldn't be on the market. It wouldn't be a great idea to jump into another serious relationship though. And honestly the time out of a relationship would probably be beneficial, but some people can't go for any length of time outside of a relationship.
    Can they do it, sure. Should they, just depends on their morality.
    hannah_belle

    Answer by hannah_belle at 11:18 PM on Oct. 10, 2008

  • nope. was it you or him? either way its not right. you are still legally married and should wait. i think if i ever get a divorce i'd wait a while after before being with anyone.
    imanixon2

    Answer by imanixon2 at 11:18 PM on Oct. 10, 2008

  • you have your free agency to do whatever you want but it's not right if your religious at all. it's not a common or socially acceptable but now days everyone seems to be lessening their values and moral fiber. i don't think so.
    melody77

    Answer by melody77 at 11:19 PM on Oct. 10, 2008

  • Are you separated, living apart, and in the process of a divorce? Then I would say another relationship is okay although maybe not the smartest thing to jump into before the divorce is final and you've had some time to heal.

    If you're not separated, living apart, and in the process of a divorce then I would say you're still married and finishing one relationship before starting another is always the right thing to do.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:21 PM on Oct. 10, 2008

  • NO
    Aprilmorgans

    Answer by Aprilmorgans at 11:25 PM on Oct. 10, 2008

  • Not okay in court. It would be considered as adultery.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:28 PM on Oct. 10, 2008

  • No, you need to wait for the divorce to be finalized first.
    mommy_bink

    Answer by mommy_bink at 11:39 PM on Oct. 10, 2008

  • well....my "husband" and I have been together for 4 years, living together.....we are both still married to other people........................
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:56 PM on Oct. 10, 2008

  • i slept with another man when we were seperated and going to get a divorce, he was in a relationship with someone else, and i didnt forsee us getting back together and we did.... and i dont see a problem with it but he considered that i cheated :P poo on him... please no bashing i do love him verymuch
    navywifemomkoch

    Answer by navywifemomkoch at 12:07 AM on Oct. 11, 2008

  • Is it right...my personal morals would say no but it depends on your own morals. If you can live with yourself and your actions that's your business. Everyone deserves happiness. Ultimately it's your choice..
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:25 AM on Oct. 11, 2008

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