totally attracted to the man you're with or if he's a little bit over weight than normal does it bother you? I'm trying to move on with a great guy and our friends set us up to meet soon and his pics I thought were cute, but a recent one he looks a little thicker...I'm nervous to meet him and feel insecure with myself...am I being a bitch or is it normal to feel like you're not totally sure if you're attracted a lot to a new guy?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:17 PM on Aug. 30, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 7:18 PM on Aug. 30, 2010
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Answer by colethky at 7:21 PM on Aug. 30, 2010
I have been with my hubby for 20 yrs. He is heavier than when we started dating in our mid 20s.... but that is ok. He looks great for mid 40s and can still participate in things we enjoy.
However, If I was single now... even though I am in my mid 40s I would NOT date a heavy man. I do not find it attractive in the least. I want an athletic man who can participate in the sports I enjoy.
Im not saying cancle the date.. that would be rude. But there is no reason to have a relationship with someone you are not attracted to.
I dont think it is bad in the least. You should be attracted to a man if you are goint to commit to him.
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