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How do you decide which Cafe Mom deserves an invite?

I got 2 invites recently- but not sure how I got picked. Is this some kind of scam? Or was it just a random pick?


Asked by mrsmom110 at 1:25 PM on Aug. 31, 2010 in About CafeMom

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Answers (8)
  • If you're talking about the friend invite thing, it's the ones I've noticed that I think like or have kids around my girl's age. If we're always giving the same answers, or agree on things, or talk a lot I'll send an invite.

    Answer by Kiwismommy19 at 1:27 PM on Aug. 31, 2010

  • A friend invite? I send friend invites when I see someone on Cafemom who I have a lot in common with, or enjoy chatting with on Answers.

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 1:27 PM on Aug. 31, 2010

  • scam??
    If they make me laugh or we have similar backgrounds. Also i send them to the other autism mommies

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 1:27 PM on Aug. 31, 2010

  • I invite people I feel I have a connection with or who I feel I like the way they think/respond to things (answers mainly) because I like to be able to answer the same type questions as them and want to be able to answer any question they post. :)

    Answer by Memigen at 1:31 PM on Aug. 31, 2010

  • You're on a social networking and friendship website, so no friend/group invites are not scams. People send you invites if they feel they have something in common with you.

    Answer by HotMama330 at 1:45 PM on Aug. 31, 2010

  • I go in and look at their profile and if they have anything in common with me I'll send an invite or if they have children about my kids age or if they are grandparents or whatever Scam---- No I don't think so they just want to get to know you it happens on here that's why it's called CafeMoms to get to know other moms you might have something in common with

    Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 6:31 PM on Aug. 31, 2010

  • I don't usually send invites. I'm socially anxious, lol, so I don't often put myself out there like that (I don't go around leaving people comments out of the blue either), but I accept them (and I comment back if I get a comment, lol). :)

    Answer by bandgeek521 at 2:05 PM on Aug. 31, 2010

  • Most likly they really liked what you Posted somewhere

    Answer by whoreallycares at 6:06 AM on Sep. 2, 2010