yesterday my best friend and i took our kids to the lake and while we were there DH's friends seen us and wanted us to go on a boat ride, well everyone tried to get DH to come to the lake (he was at work) after he got off work and he said no and when i asked about the boat ride since it was his 2 closest friends he said to go ahead well hubby told his friend he was enjoying the house to himself so to keep me out for awhile so he did kept me out till dark well i got home and DH was pissed that we were hanging out with his friends all evening and its just a huge mess... I had plans on being home early but DH's friend wouldn't let me leave since DH told him to keep me out for awhile. Well now DH isn't sure what he wants (weather he wants me to leave him or not) I don't wanna leave him but he said he's not sure... ALL because HE told me it was ok to go with his friends with my friend as well and HE told his friend to keep me out.Answer Question
Answer by SuperrMommyy at 2:43 PM on Aug. 31, 2010
Answer by mrsmom110 at 2:44 PM on Aug. 31, 2010
It sounds to me like there is something else going on. If he gets mad at you because he says to stay out late and now he wants you to leave. I would question him about his motives, and I would be a little worried. Why does he want you to leave when you stayed out late one time? If you think about it, it does sound a little suspicious.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 2:55 PM on Aug. 31, 2010
Yeah, I'm with krisssyvelazquez about this being suspicious. Does he have a habit of lashing out like this after he said that he was okay or fine with it? It's sounds like passive aggressive behaviour and if so counselling would help him communicate clearly.
Maybe it's time to connect with the wives. Do they, the dh's all hang out and distract the wives for each other?
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