what is the ruling on taking birth control if you are married. me and my husband have decided we don't want no more children we are ok with the number we have and i sign up to get my tubes tide so according to the quran and sunnah is it permissable tp have this done
Answer by flutterfae at 8:58 PM on Oct. 11, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 8:03 PM on Oct. 11, 2008
Answer by njmommy2boys at 8:03 PM on Oct. 11, 2008
Im Muslim, think about it like this, if you cannot provide and feed this child how would you feel? How do you think God will feel? I think that it would be better to have the procedure done then having children that will make expenses more and will make things hard for you and the child itself! I dunno, you are entitled to do as you wish, but I think it would be a good decision if u decide to do it. I cannot think of anything off the top of my head that would give you proof in the Quran or anything like that..maybe someone will find something...but really think about it and pray about it :) This is just my logic behind the subject...Would you possibly think about getting an IUD? I have one and its worked for me...Let me know if u want more info on it...Good Luck!
Answer by MaiasMommy619 at 11:11 PM on Oct. 11, 2008
assalamu alaikum sister. any permanent measure of birth control is not allowed in Islam. you can space them out, or organize , or use methods that are not extreme unless there is a medical reason . If pregnancy is dangerous to your health, then you can take drastic measures, like having your tubes tied, or vasectomy...etc. but unless there is a medical emergency or valid medical reason, then it is not allowed. as to the reason of fearing not to be able to feed them. THAT is haram. there is an explicit verse in the Quran about it, for Allah is the provider.
Answer by proud2bmom3 at 3:30 AM on Oct. 12, 2008
here is a post about it with a fatwa from our group , sister, please if you have questions about details in Islam. try to come and post them at the Muslim moms group. not many Muslim sisters brows the question answer sections. you would have better chances at getting answers with proof over there. you are in my dua'
Love and salaam
Answer by proud2bmom3 at 3:32 AM on Oct. 12, 2008
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Answer by MaiasMommy619 at 12:56 PM on Oct. 12, 2008
this is exactly what I hate about the questions section. because people can hide behind anonymous to be rude and cruel. if you think you have something worth typing. be woman enough to stand behind it .
sister, no one can tell you what to follow , or whose advice to take. all we can do is offer that advice to the best of our abilities and you have to use your own God given judgment to pick the right thing insha' Allah, I would listen to sister MaiasMommy619 about the IUD option. I have not used it myself. but a friend of mine does and she loves it. please explore your options before making a decision. .............
Answer by proud2bmom3 at 3:26 PM on Oct. 12, 2008