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How do you tell your friend ?

Your friend tell you her son crashed 3 cars in one week i have seen him with friends taking drugs do i tell or not?

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pyrofyterwife

Asked by pyrofyterwife at 3:05 PM on Sep. 1, 2010 in Adult Children (18+)

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  • I'd tell my friend for sure. I would just come right out and tell her
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 3:05 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

  • Tell but be prepared to have her NOT believe you.
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 3:06 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

  • Definately tell her, I would want to know if it was my son
    June_Mama09

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 3:06 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

  • yes
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:06 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

  • yes... tell her.
    cassie_m

    Answer by cassie_m at 3:07 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

  • Oh and BTW she probably already knows but doesn't want to admit it... like Jademom07 said she might "not believe" you or she might get angry but it something you definately need to tel her, GL!
    June_Mama09

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 3:08 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

  • Way...clues for 200 Alex~
    surfcitymom

    Answer by surfcitymom at 3:08 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

  • Yes, as a mother of a teenager, I would want to know.
    shanlaree

    Answer by shanlaree at 3:09 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

  • You saw him taking drugs? Did you say anything to him when you saw this? I will tell your friend but like another person posted, be prepared for her not to believe you & a possible fight.
    Good luck!
    cheekycherub

    Answer by cheekycherub at 3:09 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

  • I agree with Jademom. You need to tell her. However, you need to be prepared for her to say that she doesn't believe you. It seems that the first stage of a parent accepting that their child is doing something like this is denial. You still need to tell her though because it is the right thing to do.

    GL.
    hsmominky

    Answer by hsmominky at 3:10 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

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