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Why am I dry "down there" during intercourse!?

I didn't have sex for a couple months, then when me and my new SO did it for the first time, I was really dry down there. You would think id be extremely wet since I haven't done it in a while, but no! I was embarrassed, and the whole situation was just awkward. And now im sure he thinks that he doesn't turn me on. What could be wrong with me???

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:39 PM on Sep. 1, 2010 in Health

Answers (6)
  • in your case it was probably nerves bc you were wanting it to be sooo awesome..i have those spells every so often too if my dh has been outta town for awhile and just coming back home..i get so nervous and dont even know it! Ugh being a woman can be so aggrivating lol

    Answer by jorjiegirl at 3:40 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

  • It could be hormones. Just get lube.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 3:41 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

  • lol yea i get that way sometimes too...they make something for us women to help with

    Answer by Brittney20 at 3:41 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

  • It is your hormones changing. Get the ky gel. They have ky intense for both of u.

    Answer by dancer at 3:49 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

  • I agree get ky.

    Answer by mamaofficer at 7:01 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

  • Probably nerves, but possibly birth control or some other hormonal factor.

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 10:49 PM on Sep. 1, 2010

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