His ex wife has full custody of their 3 yr old son and we are stationed in Turkey for anothe ryear...we went onleave a month ago and I took pics of Jaxon and my husband and posted them on facebook..My sister inlaw replied to one of them saying how cute he is..Well I posted "yes he is very adorable and i love and mis shim alot.."His ex wife bitched at him the other day b/c I posted that sayin I hve no right to be saying stuff like that to other people and that I need to watch what I say...She does this all the time about anything that I post..I made it very clear to her before we moved that I dont want to replace her at all...Its not inme to do that..Im just goign to be his friend and when he's in our care IM going to be a parent..Am I in the wrong here?It seems like all she ever does is bitch about things but than the next day she is all nice and friendly to me on facebook...Answer Question
Answer by SophiaofLight at 4:12 AM on Sep. 2, 2010
Answer by Prayerpartner at 4:21 AM on Sep. 2, 2010
Answer by maya123 at 4:26 AM on Sep. 2, 2010
Answer by raemommy at 4:33 AM on Sep. 2, 2010
Answer by Nobe at 5:17 AM on Sep. 2, 2010
Until you are in her position of having to let a stranger take care of your child. Just because your EX is married to this stranger. You really do not know what she is going through. Block her from your facebook. And do not talk to her. Maybe you should not post pics of the stepchild. Don't rock the boat.
Answer by louise2 at 5:53 AM on Sep. 2, 2010
Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 6:21 AM on Sep. 2, 2010
Answer by Zoeyis at 6:29 AM on Sep. 2, 2010
Answer by AngelEyva at 6:45 AM on Sep. 2, 2010
Why don't you just block her from seeing your pictures? Don't have to unfriend her at all. Just limit what she sees.
Your dealing with the momma bear syndrome. The family has gone though a major shock, divorce, and she's being very protective. You are the new thing, potential threat and you have to be put in your place. Apparently you have not earned the right in her eyes to take such actions.So when you do, you get slapped back down. If you want her to relax her defencive stance, your going to have to get to know her and her you. Your going to have to make yourself not a threat to her child. You will have to be on Team Kid.
Answer by isabellalecour at 6:48 AM on Sep. 2, 2010