So DF and I set the date for May 13, 2011. But now I'm not sure what kind of ceremony to do. My mother has already stated that I'm not to put too much Wicca in it, or none of my family will come. DF and I have debated whether we should do a subtle handfasting ceremony, where it seems like a Christian ceremony so no one will be offended, or we should get married how we want and have a real handfasting. I mean I planned on for a regular handfasting making the hall feel outside-ish with a few fake trees and some back drops. (Too hot in FL and too many bugs) I found I cute little fairy-like dress and ballet flats that I wanted to wear because that's who he's marrying. But I want some of my family there too. But I don't know if I'll be happy conforming and DF said it's because I won't be being true to myself. Any advice?
Note:: I lost my wallet 6+ months ago and in it was my wand. Well I found it this morning.
Answer by 2autisticsmom at 9:43 AM on Sep. 2, 2010
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Answer by Amaranth361 at 10:57 AM on Sep. 2, 2010
Regrets are a hard thing to live with. If your decision doesn't have your support 100% you will regret it later. It is your wedding and it represents you and your soon to be husband so if your family cannot accept that your Wiccan, having an openly Wiccan ceremony isn't going to change anything in the long run.
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