Honestly, we were already having some problems when I found out I was pregnant. It wasn't completely unexpected, but we had stopped trying so we could go ahead and figure out where our relationship was headed before we had a child. But it didn't happen that way, I was already pregnant. A year and a half after she was born, I finally feel like myself again. I didn't feel like myself throughout the whole pregnancy and especially after giving birth. I wasn't myself. I'm usually kind and soft and gentle, but I just wasn't. I feel like I failed at mothering an infant. She was very colicky and cried a lot until she was older then a year old. I want to have another baby to give her a sibling and also kind of to just prove that I can do it (not to mention the fact that kids are so wonderful!).
We had decided on two kids, but after seeing how hard a colicky baby is, my Dh doesn't want to have another one. It just makes me sad.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:02 AM on Sep. 2, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by twinmama2five at 9:06 AM on Sep. 2, 2010
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