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why do i feel like a virgin after having my baby?!

we can only do it missionary because it feels so tight it hurts all the way up.....why is this?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:02 AM on Oct. 12, 2008 in Babies (0-12 months)

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  • maybe the stitches?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:04 AM on Oct. 12, 2008

  • Hmmm, Can't answer why but I remember that. Have you tried lubrication?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:12 AM on Oct. 12, 2008

  • yeah i dont really know why that is either but i do remember that feeling. it took like 2 months for me to be back to normal lol just take it slow and dont rush too much. you dont want to hurt yourself.
    sarrrr13

    Answer by sarrrr13 at 10:16 AM on Oct. 12, 2008

  • i can't answer this either cuz my baby is due in Dec. but i heard if u breat feed it makes it go tighter down there? did u breast feed?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:10 PM on Oct. 12, 2008

  • Ahh... the things they don't put in the brochure. This is normal and very common. It will get better over time.
    kaycee14

    Answer by kaycee14 at 1:37 PM on Oct. 12, 2008

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