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Do you ever look at your husband and think... Man did I make a mistake!

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Asked by 35yoamom at 4:15 PM on Sep. 2, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Yes, every time he hurt me... that is why we're divorced.

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 4:17 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • Not my husband, but my ex husband yes and that is why he is my ex.

    Answer by riotgrrl at 4:18 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • nope, but im sure he's looked at me and wondered a few times!

    Answer by shaysmommy5810 at 4:18 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • NO SHAY... Why do you say that?

    Comment by 35yoamom (original poster) at 4:20 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • Yes, and even though we're working on our marriage now there is still that piece of me that is saying "are you really sure you want this?"
    I actually just went to my therapy appointment and let loose, even though things are better, there is still that flicker of a mistake in my mind. Too many things are still the same and I'm worried they will always be. The fear I have is being a resentful, pissed off bitch when my kids move out because I continually feel like I'm doing things on my own and not like a partnership. Hopefully we can get through it and make the relationship stronger...but some days its tough.

    Answer by blessedwboysx3 at 4:20 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • No.

    Answer by andrea96 at 4:20 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • Sorry Blessed... This is a touchy subject for you.

    Comment by 35yoamom (original poster) at 4:22 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • At one point in our marriage I did question if I made the right choice. Then we finally came a common ground and things started to turn around. That's when I started to see again why I chose him and why I continue to be with him. So it's good now.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 4:24 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • More times than I'd like to admit.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 4:38 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • Every night I think about it....The entire he he is sitting in his chair, hour after hour, with beers mixed in and the kids getting ignored, yes I do know we would not be together if it were not for our son

    Answer by wheresthewayout at 4:39 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

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