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If a Christian divorces and married again are they committing adultery?

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35yoamom

Asked by 35yoamom at 10:42 PM on Sep. 2, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Depends on the reason for divorce...
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 10:43 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • Um... No. Divorce ended their first marriage...
    SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 10:44 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • OK, I'm not sure exactly what the bible says about this but IMO, God is a loving God and would want His children to be happy. he doesn't condemn us our mistakes, only asks that we learn from them. I don't know how that answers your question but I cannot believe that God would want you to live in a marriage where you weren't happy and living in happiness.
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 10:45 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • depends on how the first marriage ended
    wheresthewayout

    Answer by wheresthewayout at 10:45 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • It depends on the particular sect of Christianity they are practicing. In some churches if they do not ANNUL the marriage, then yes, they are committing adultery by remarrying even with a legal divorce because a divorce is a legal proceeding, not a church proceeding.
    twinsplus2more

    Answer by twinsplus2more at 10:46 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • It depends if there was scriptural grounds for divorce. If there was not correct grounds then yes it is adultery.
    Melbornj

    Answer by Melbornj at 10:47 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • I had tis same questions before I had my divorce I lived with an unfaithful man for 12 years because I felt diivorce was wrong. I finally decided I was not doing right by my children or myself and left my husband. It was a big moral issue for me and I still wonder today if I have condemed myself and my new husband. But I believe God forgives my sins and I trust in his love and promises.
    nanny29

    Answer by nanny29 at 10:47 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • This is a tough question. God hates divorce, but also is forgiving. I have personally grown more as an individual, in my relationship with God and in my marriage by working (praying) through our troubles, instead of getting a divorce.
    blessedwithree

    Answer by blessedwithree at 10:50 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • A sin is a sin. God forgives.
    LovingSAHMommy

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 10:50 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • there are certain situations which the bible does decree divorce ok. Mostly God would want us to stay in first marriage but again sometimes divorce is unavoidable.
    katcb1019

    Answer by katcb1019 at 10:53 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

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