I have been with my dh for over 4 years and married for two of them. So, why is it my in-laws still think it acceptable to plan my sds b-day party. This is not the first time they have done this sort of things. They litetally almost ruined my wedding. My mil calls to tell me tonight that my sil had picked out the date, place, and time of my sds b-day without a mention to my dh or myself. She even invited people. To top it off dh and I with sds help have already planned it, just haven't sent the invites yet. How would you handle this situation? I mean dh and I do not want to start a hugr fight but enough is enough. I basically told dh to grow a set and put them in their place. His child his responsibility not theirs. Please help. They are driving me nuts.
If he will not talk to his family, you will have to. Just let them know that you have made arrangements and plan on doing so in the future too. Maybe let them know that you would loved for them to be involved as long as they realize you have the final say and they run it by you first for final approval. They should not be allowed to make plans for your child w/o talking to you and your DH first.
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