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After going through a divorce along, with losing a family member, along with medical issues, how do you deal with people who has no comprehension with what you accomplished. They continually revert back to your past situations.

While going through marrital problems, I lost my father, and then divorce. Losing my home for 13 years and ending up with only a vehicle to my name. How do you get people to understand that your past is not your present. Do any others
have situations like this?

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kgardner62411

Asked by kgardner62411 at 11:08 PM on Sep. 2, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Well if some one brings it up. Say "thanks for reminding me how far I have come".. I am still however "a work in progress".. Keep on trucking sista good work!
    mmmegan38

    Answer by mmmegan38 at 11:13 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • mmmegan said is perfectly I could not even add anything.
    Melbornj

    Answer by Melbornj at 11:21 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • I think this is a GREAT answer
    Well if some one brings it up. Say "thanks for reminding me how far I have come".. I am still however "a work in progress".. Keep on trucking sista good work!
    hsmominky

    Answer by hsmominky at 11:25 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • Id punch them in the face lol j///k .. well maybe I don't know what to tell you but great job! your awesome I think i speak for you kids when i say thanks for not giving up ! you rock what a good role model! never give up and never surrender!
    Zandrialeann

    Answer by Zandrialeann at 12:25 AM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • Nobody has a perfect life, don't worry about what other people say or think. If the only person you truly get to know in this lifetime is you, the journey will have been well worth it. Be true to yourself, stay safe.
    wellnessgirl

    Answer by wellnessgirl at 10:04 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • stop explaining yourself . you owe no one but your self. people can be heartless ahole.
    moxiema

    Answer by moxiema at 2:44 AM on Sep. 5, 2010

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