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why do men decide after you have a baby that they want out of the relationship?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:39 PM on Sep. 2, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (21)
  • Because they're not real men. Real men don't want out. Real men are in it for life.
    midnightshadow2

    Answer by midnightshadow2 at 11:40 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • ugh , i want to say something helpful but all i can think is douchebags
    maymummy

    Answer by maymummy at 11:42 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • cause babies scare men... my husband cant wait to hold our baby but has shared his fears about screwing up. i trust him that hell be a great daddy!!!
    pinkdena

    Answer by pinkdena at 11:43 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • if some men are like that they were never really part of the relationship to begin with and they showed it, but women choose to overlook what is real so they can hold on to what they hope will be something

    virginiamama71

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 11:42 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • I think the charactersitics of that type of man would have been shown in a million other ways before I would have a baby with him.. but not all men do this ... actually No man I have yet to meet or be friends with has been like this
    maxsmom11807

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 11:43 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • i must agree with midnightshadow. real men dont walk out on their family
    3xangel

    Answer by 3xangel at 11:44 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • Because they don't want to man up & make a commitment. This is one reason why it isn't wise to have children with someone you're not married too. And in order not to have children with someone you're not married to, you shouldn't be having sex with someone you're not married to.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:45 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • because they r sorry sob!
    gabby06

    Answer by gabby06 at 11:45 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • and in reality aren't men.
    gabby06

    Answer by gabby06 at 11:45 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

  • Its generally not a good sign if they are not personally motivated to marry you before the baby comes. They are trying to keep their escape plan open and as easy as possible.
    karamille

    Answer by karamille at 11:53 PM on Sep. 2, 2010

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