Both my Grandparents and my in laws almost ended in divorce due to racing. Luckily, both were able to work it out. It is like an addiction, especially when it becomes a financial issue. Personally, my DH is very involved with racing (the home track here) and I love it. His Mom (who hates racing due to her almost failed marriage) takes our son and he works/I watch on race nights. If I ever asked him to not go, he would not go but it would seriously strain our relationship and I could NEVER take away something that he loves so much. It is a good thing for your DH to be passionate about something. What about it makes you feel that he puts it at a higher priority than you?
at 1:21 AM on Sep. 3, 2010