the OP can correct me but what I think she is trying to say is when she sees single mothers where she lives and they have quite a few young children with them and are known to be assisted by public assistance to care for their children, no fathers are involved and these women struggle to take care of their children but somehow they still do not learn responsibility...but are still good Mothers...they just do not get it when it comes to being responsible so they place themselves in this life of struggling to survive.....so the OP feels something for these women but does not judge them.
Answer by virginiamama71 at 1:11 AM on Sep. 3, 2010
I think if someone wants to have alot of children they should be responsible in taking care of them. Having them, than having some difficulties placed before you in life and having to struggle thru life is fine, but having them irresponsible continously and not doing anything to take care of them and expecting others to always be there to take care of them is not right..
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Answer by wheresthewayout at 12:56 AM on Sep. 3, 2010
i feel no sympathy for parents who seem to not stop having kids when they start to have problems keeping food on the table or clothes on their backs. i think if you cant afford to take care of them then you should be having anymore kids (OP)
Well...what if they can't afford birth control either? What if their insurance doesn't cover it? What if the husband/boyfriend or whatever is abusive and controlling and is keeping the woman pregnant because they don't want her to stray? Maybe before you pass judgement on someone you should get to the bottom of the facts. Especially since you seem to show such interest in strangers lives. Or maybe it's none of your business and maybe you should just not let it effect your life.
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