My boyfriend whose wife of 25 years betrayed him by having an affair and then leaving him for a friend of the family - asked him recently if he could be friends with her. He said no but said it does make him feel good to speak now and then with her reminiscing about the (now grown) kids. Then - she sent him a card on Yom Kippur "atoning" and apologizing for hurting him.
I've been with him for 2 years. We have a wonderful relationship but I can't help but wonder if he is having reason to pause and consider what it would be like to go back to her. Or if it just feels good that she is reaching out to him.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:48 PM on Oct. 12, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 3:58 PM on Oct. 12, 2008
Answer by admckenzie at 4:39 PM on Oct. 12, 2008
Answer by melody77 at 5:21 PM on Oct. 12, 2008