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Any ideas? adult content

Ok, so the man and I are trying to find some things we can do, you know 'behind closed doors', something kinky, not psychotic here, but kinky, something 'new' so to speak, unfort', we've done so much, that we're running out of ideas.

no rude remarks, we're all adults, and i'm asking for advice not ridicule. everyone's had sex, it's natural, some of us, just like it a little different, any rude remarks will be deleted or ignored, i'm 22, not 12.. any ideas would be great! thanks, haha!

 
Cowbell88

Asked by Cowbell88 at 3:04 PM on Sep. 3, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • have him tie you to the bed(or you him) with neck ties. and use another tie for a blindfold. now, this is crucial, have a safe word-that means if he does something you dont want-you say the word. we have a safe word and basically if he starts to try something I am not into, I say it, and the "game stops. this can be so much fun!
    good luck!
    Bearsjen

    Answer by Bearsjen at 3:08 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • instead of trying to do something different why don't you try DOING IT somewhere different like a park at night under your house in a pool you know somewhere unexpectedly crazy lol good luck!


     


    you rock

    cielo1

    Answer by cielo1 at 3:12 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • Go to http://fetlife.com/ ....there you can find the entire list of bedroom fun. From vanilla to insane. You and your guy can create separate free profiles and tease each other though mail on there and suggest moves. 

    BradenIsMySon

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 3:14 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • Try doing it in the total dark. But don't just have sex, take it slow, and touch. Touch everywhere, really soft. When it's dark (and quiet) your senses are heightened. If you have a silky scarf, slowly pull that along his body, that will drive him crazy. If you have long hair, drag that along his body if you don't have a scarf. All that is some great stuff!
    Raine2001

    Answer by Raine2001 at 3:20 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • thanks, bearsjen, you know of all the things we've tried, never tried being tied up, and it looks and sounds so exciting! thanks for the advice!
    Cowbell88

    Comment by Cowbell88 (original poster) at 3:11 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • hahaha cielo, i totally know what you mean, we live out in east nowhereville haha, so it's hard sometimes, but yes, i love spontaneous out of nowhere in the open sex!
    Cowbell88

    Comment by Cowbell88 (original poster) at 3:14 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • Oh wow. I'm going to have to use some of the suggestions given to you for my DH and I! lol. We have been trying to think of new things also.
    poptart0325

    Answer by poptart0325 at 3:41 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • poptart, sure go ahead, i have too,it's like you think of 100 things and then do them, then it's 'now what?'
    Cowbell88

    Comment by Cowbell88 (original poster) at 3:46 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

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