Try "don't offer, don't refuse". Don't offer to nurse, but if she asks then don't say no. Why? Because a lot of times when toddlers this age hear "no" it makes them ask more and more. So, if you have been telling her no, try stopping that for a couple of weeks.
At the same time avoid situations where she is likely to ask. Keep your radar on for when you think she might ask and redirect her BEFORE she does "Let's have a snack," or "Let's go for a walk!"
If you are home alone with her for long periods of time she is likely asking frequently just because you are there, she is bored etc. Try the suggestions above and see if you can get her down to nursing only a couple of times a day, like right before bed. Then work on getting rid of those last couple of times (or you may find you are okay with going a bit longer if it is a less demanding).
at 6:51 PM on Sep. 3, 2010