Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Do you get jealous when your SO looks at other women?

Answer Question

Asked by Anonymous at 5:45 PM on Sep. 3, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (15)
  • I don't get jealous but it bothers me some. I ask my dh not to elaborate on the cuteness of other women to me. I don't mind that he looks, I just don't want to hear about it. Funny thing about men, they look.

    Answer by gnovinger at 5:46 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • maybe if he did that. he looks at girls on tv and may say wow she's hot. i get a little jealous but then i tell myself it's ridiculous and i do the same thing. so i can't complain. if he does look he is being smart about not saying or comparing me to them.

    Answer by melody77 at 5:46 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • depends.. a quick glance is nothing.. to sit there with your mouth open and drool coming out, now that I would get mad about.

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 5:48 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • No..

    He's human. He looks at what he finds attractive or what catches his eyes... Just as I do.

    However. Neither one of us are blatent or overt about it. We do not make comments to one another (like I've seen some women share that their partners make), or act rudely about it or towards one another over it.. If either of us behaved in this manner, I'm sure I would look at it/feel differentlly about it.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 5:50 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • i don't care at all! if he wants to think that someone that looks better than me will put up with all of his garbage, then i will let him have his dreams ; )

    Answer by happy2bmom25 at 5:50 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • nope, he tells me if he does, but its nothing sexual it's more like how oculd you not notice that bra or are women doing that on purpose kind of thing...

    Answer by candle5 at 5:50 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • Nay, he is mine all the way!

    Answer by Cindy18 at 5:52 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • yes. If he wants to look he can leave. JMO if Im not satisfying enough to look at right now when Im young, then I doubt I will get any better looking and he better run now while he has the chance!

    Answer by Alysia_Moore at 5:53 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • No, i look at other women too. He never stares or says anything & never druels over them. I'll just notice him glance. Some people are just good looking & there is nothing wrong with noticing.

    I look at good looking men & women. I don't see anything wrong with it at all.

    Answer by samurai_chica at 5:53 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

  • Not really. If he were to stare at someone or say "I wish you looked like that", I would be hurt.

    Answer by MeandMyBabes at 5:53 PM on Sep. 3, 2010

Join CafeMom now to contribute your answer and become part of our community. It's free and takes just a minute.