I am having a moral dilemma with my teen. She is in college and wants to spend the night with her b/f. Both are 18--neither work. She is off in college--he is trying to get a job. He is a good kid she is a good kid.
My question is this when do you say by honey have a good time spending the night over there?
Answer by twinsplus2more at 8:54 AM on Sep. 5, 2010
Answer by onemellowmom at 1:16 AM on Sep. 4, 2010
at 18 she can make that choice... it's not really up to you
Answer by Morgain at 1:10 AM on Sep. 4, 2010
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Answer by Janet at 1:16 AM on Sep. 4, 2010
once I was 18 my parents didn't dis-allow me to do anything. There only rule was that if I wasn't going to come home then i should call them early enough so that the wouldn't worry. I didn't abuse their trust. I just don't see how you can tell her that she can't go to her BF's house, she's 18 and well within the legal age of consent if that is why she wants to go there. Could also be then want to spend time together like normal couples over the age of 18. Don't you trust that you raised her with a good head on her shoulders?? That poor kid, you all but said "I don't trust you".
Answer by Morgain at 1:26 AM on Sep. 4, 2010
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