A friend of mine just turned 24, is pregnant w/her 4th baby, she still lives w/her mother in a 3 bedroom house w/about 4 or her older brothers and sisters, she has no job at times she wont send her daughter to school, and is w/the babys dad on& off, i know it should be none of my business but most of the time its me who she and her mom call assuming i will do favors for them or think i will let them borrow money me, i have my fiance and kids of my own, i am a stay at home mom myself but i wont have more than what i can't afford i cant see myself borrowingfrom friends, I have learned to just tell them no or simply not answer the phone. The only thing i asked her was if her bf was planning on marrying her n she laughed and said yea w/4 babys he better man up this time. Is tere any more i should tell her or just let it be.Answer Question
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Answer by PaganMommy04 at 11:51 AM on Sep. 4, 2010
I think you need to lose this friend. Sounds like a free loader to me. I'm not even talking about all the kids. Sometimes "accidents" happen and every child is a blessing but you have to grow up and take care of them on your own and be a responsible parent.
I have 3 kids and none of them was "planned", but I rent my own house, they go to school everyday, I pay for all school activities, pictures, clothes, etc. with very little help. It's reasonable to need help from time to time but to just free load off of you and her mom is not just a little help from time to time. She needs to grow up!!
Answer by Cindy18 at 11:57 AM on Sep. 4, 2010
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