i'm not sure my b-d and i are going to stay together.. i really want to be with him and we still have love.. but the stress is taking too much out of us and we're fighting althe time... should i go ahead and file papers for his child support just in case or wait?
Nothing in this world replaces both parents in the home.I am divorced an it played hard on my kids.I have a 10yr old still home an she visits her dad its not all its cracked up to be if you can make it work do it.However mine didnt work an we are doing fine.But to a child nothing beats the real deal.
try talking to him. set aside one night , leae the bs and stress behind and just talk...dim the lights etc. stress, financial problems , work etc. can really take a toll on a relationship. doesnt mean your not in love, just really stressed. me and my husband have had problems, i was considering a Divorce one time but im glad we stuck thru it cause once we got thru the hard part....were better than ever