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Based on their behavior, have you ever wondered if your child will be homosexual? adult content

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Asked by -MsPsychology- at 10:56 PM on Sep. 5, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • I never cared about things like that so, no.

    Answer by admckenzie at 10:57 PM on Sep. 5, 2010

  • No, I can't say I have. I'd be interested in seeing what other replies are, as I don't know what would make you wonder this. Are you seeing behavior that you question?

    Answer by Sonnut at 10:58 PM on Sep. 5, 2010

  • I believe my youngest son will be. I have spoke to a number of mothers of homosexual males and although none of them knew til later, they all say the same thing "We should have seen it..." My youngest son is about as feminine as a boy can be, but I don't believe he's uncomfortable in his body, so I don't believe he's transgendered - simply homosexual... Although, I could be wrong, but at this point I believe it... Only time will tell! He's only 3, so things could change!

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 10:58 PM on Sep. 5, 2010

  • As long as they are happy I would not care.

    My son is 9 - almost 10, and he is so addicted to all things Boobie....I don't think I need to worry

    Answer by Maureen-MD at 10:58 PM on Sep. 5, 2010

  • haha maybe. but Who am I to decide whats a 'queer act' or not. Whenever my boy acts a little gay I say he gets it from his father. Weather he loves boys or girls, I will always love him. (same for my youngest and any future kids I may have)

    Answer by Amelia512 at 10:59 PM on Sep. 5, 2010

  • nope and dont care.

    Answer by sati769leigh at 10:59 PM on Sep. 5, 2010

  • Oh no, I just thought it'd be interesting to see if anyone did. My sister used to think her son would be gay because he asked for little girls' clothes when he was young. Some Moms seem to stress about this...I guess it was also on my mind because I live on an Army base and my son is taking dance classes. When I signed him up the staff seemed VERY strange. They kept telling me over and over he might be happier doing something else. So people are so closed-minded.

    Comment by -MsPsychology- (original poster) at 11:01 PM on Sep. 5, 2010

  • The question wasn't if you care. This isn't a "would you love your child if they were gay" thread. It's wondering if certain acts ever make you curious.

    Comment by -MsPsychology- (original poster) at 11:03 PM on Sep. 5, 2010

  • Ummm I am not worried about it if he is he is if he isnt then he isnt I am only interested in how he is now... (he = them)

    Answer by agriffinmom4 at 11:03 PM on Sep. 5, 2010

  • Yes actually. Though at his age you can't determin that kind of thing, because he's merely a toddler. However, the things he enjoys leads me to think that he might be gay. It's interesting to wonder, even though it makes absolutely no difference to me.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 11:04 PM on Sep. 5, 2010

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