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What would make you leave your husband?

Cheating, (once, twice) baby born from infidelity, physical abuse, mental abuse, verbal abuse... Child abuse (if he hurt your child) money problems, his inability to keep a job?

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Asked by 35yoamom at 12:41 AM on Sep. 6, 2010 in Relationships

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  • #1 would be cheating
    #2 mental and physical abuse of me or our children

    Other than that I don't see any reason I would leave him.

    Answer by jnsdrf at 12:44 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • If he cheated once Id stay but if it happend again I'd leave.. Also any form a abuse, physical, mental, and verbal, also child abuse are all the same, so if any of those have happend I;d for sure leave him.. My husband now has a anger issue, he like to yell, but has never came across to abuse me or the kids..

    Answer by AirforceWife654 at 12:45 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • Cheating, mentally or physically abusing me or my children, falling out of love

    Answer by kamsmommy17 at 12:47 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • hitting me or fathering a child with another women....

    Answer by pinkdena at 12:49 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • also abuse of our children

    Answer by pinkdena at 12:49 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • all of them except money problems or his inability to keep a job. he could always be a stay at home dad. i won't tolerate cheating,abuse in anyway to me or our son especially,or a child by another women.

    Answer by xavierlogan09 at 12:51 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • Abuse of our children, but that would never happen. Cheating would depend. If he was willing to work on our marriage and never do it again, I would stay. If he did it again, well, I guess he wasn't really sorry to begin with. That's about it.

    Answer by montanagal2005 at 12:56 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • cheating, abuse. Anything else we can work through.

    Answer by rhianna1708 at 1:17 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • Any cheating and actual physical abuse of the kids. The rest I could take to therapy and work out.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 1:20 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • Cheating or any form of abuse...there have been times I was so fed up with my marriage that I wish he would hit me just to give me a valid reason to leave!

    Answer by wheresthewayout at 1:46 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

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