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everyone i knows says i should not have my baby...

baby daddy denies its his my family dont support and friends say i shouldnt hav it i dont knwo what to do

 
expressmom911

Asked by expressmom911 at 12:43 AM on Sep. 6, 2010 in Adoption

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Answers (6)
  • what do you want??? dont think about what others say you should do do what you want to do.... if giving up your baby to a better family life or what ever reason you should choose then do it but its your decision dont let anyone pressure you into what you dont want to do
    pinkdena

    Answer by pinkdena at 12:45 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • are you pregnant? don't listen to anyone but yourself. if you want your child then have your child. you will be the one raising your baby. you don't need friends who tell you that you don't need your child. i suggest finding different friends and getting your child's father for child support. he might be saying he doesn't want you to have your child so he doesn't have to pay. if you need anyone to talk to pm me. good luck.
    xavierlogan09

    Answer by xavierlogan09 at 12:46 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • Sweetie, Don't let others try to make your decisions for you. A Baby is truly a blessing. If you do not have the means to take care of the baby then you can do two things. You can either find the resources in your area that will be able to help you or choose to put the baby up for adoption. You have a lot of choices. I think that you should think about what you want. What do you want in your heart? What makes you happy? Are you ready to have a baby? Do you think you can do it? I will pray for you.
    hsmominky

    Answer by hsmominky at 12:47 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • do what's best for you, who cares what they think
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 12:45 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • You need to think about what's best for you and your baby and no one else. Call a local pregnancy hotline and talk to someone about your situation but you need to make the final decision.
    ceallaigh

    Answer by ceallaigh at 12:56 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • if giving up your baby to a better family life or what ever reason you should choose then do it but its your decision dont let anyone pressure you into what you dont want to do
    pinkdena

    Answer by pinkdena

    Nobody can guarantee your baby a better family or life just a different one.
    miriamz

    Answer by miriamz at 1:17 AM on Sep. 6, 2010