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would you make friends with an ex-Sister in law?

ok, I just met my brother in law's ex-wife (my husband's brother's ex...)
They were divorced before I even met my husband.
But I really like her and we have a lot in common. Would it be weird to make friends with her?

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elizabiza

Asked by elizabiza at 9:53 AM on Sep. 6, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • I see nothing wrong with it I say go for it it couldn't hurt and how often is she going to be around when your brother in law is.
    Moms_Angels1960

    Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 9:55 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • im still best friends with my ex sister in law we just dont hang out around my new family
    lisachole23

    Answer by lisachole23 at 9:57 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • you really like her and you have a lot in common ... so why not?
    yoliplus6

    Answer by yoliplus6 at 9:59 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • My mom was very close to my dad's sister. Seemed fine..
    Musicmom80

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 10:03 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • About 40% of my facebook is my ex's family. So ya I keep in touch with them.
    dragonlady44

    Answer by dragonlady44 at 10:37 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • Nope. There's nothing wrong with that.
    JazzlikeMraz

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 10:49 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • No. There's nothing wrong with that. You can't live your life to suit your brother in law.
    Raine2001

    Answer by Raine2001 at 10:57 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • I said no, but that was no, there's nothing wrong with it. Not no I wouldn't be friend's with her. I'm not gonna delete to re post. You lose 5 damn points for that!
    Raine2001

    Answer by Raine2001 at 10:58 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • My best friend is my former sis-in-law. I even sided with her during the separation and divorce. Definitely did not make my brother-in-law happy, which made me even happier because I do not like him at all.
    SpiritedWitch

    Answer by SpiritedWitch at 11:39 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

  • If there's no issues with it, I don't see a problem with it.

    Would I do it with mine? Hell-effing no. I used to be friends w/ my first SIL, but not after the crap she pulled on my brother after they divorced (it was her idea to divorce). And most definitely not my 2nd SIL (his second wife) after abandoning her son, my nephew. If anything, I'd like to punch her lights out.
    thatgirl70

    Answer by thatgirl70 at 11:42 AM on Sep. 6, 2010

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