OK so My bf and his mom think that it's only the womans job to take cae of the baby. I work he don't so when i go to wok his mom gets her bc guys should never have the baby. "it's the girls responsibility to have them at all times". I can't do anything without some kind of comments from them. Then i'm so sick of her says well i worked 3rd shift so thet were always sleeping. I would come home get them ready fo school cook. Then i would come home clean up do this do that. I would pick them up make lunch. Then we would lay down take a nap. Thats the only sleep i got which was only like 3 hrs (BS). I would wake up make dinner clean up and do it all over again. Igrew up diffrent than that. So is it ok for DADS to keep the kids?Answer Question
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 11:04 AM on Sep. 6, 2010
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Answer by Raeann11 at 11:07 AM on Sep. 6, 2010
that is what dating is for.... to determine if a man has the same beliefs and life goals.... if he does and you are in love.. THEN you get married and THEN you have kids.
Obviously you choose to do things differently... so THIS IS the father of your child. WHy are you complaining? YOU chose this life for yourself and your child. So best to figure out how to live with in the life YOU chose and not waste your time complaining about it.
Find the good... the baby has a loving grandmother to take care of it while you work. Father IS in the picture... he didnt leave you flat. You have a job and a healthy child. Focus on the GOOD... this IS the life YOU chose.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:09 AM on Sep. 6, 2010
Answer by yoliplus6 at 11:10 AM on Sep. 6, 2010