I wish I had the answer for ya. I was right where you are about a year ago. It was painful and awful and I would only wish it on my worst enemy! ;) But really, for me, it was to keep busy. I cleaned my place every single day cuz if I sat down and had time to think it hurt my heart. I would take long walks to get out of the house. I had my daughter I couldn't let see me be weak and cry every day over a guy. Sometimes I had to go lock myself in the bathroom and just cry though. There are no magic answers and what worked for me may not be your answer. Read, sing, dance, walk, talk to someone...so something to distract yourself and one day you'll notice you didn't think of him that much that day. The next gets easier...it will take time. Be strong momma!!
at 11:45 AM on Sep. 6, 2010