I've been maried for six yrs, was sperated from my husband for a yr. he lived in one state i another. we decided we wanted to try and make things work. so i got rid of everything i owned to move to the state he was in. with the promise that he wanted to take care of me and i didn't have to worry about paying any bills. now that im here his whole tune has changed and things have been a mess for me since after a month of me being here. he keeps telling me to get out. he is a correctional officer and retired military. where is my income only consit of ssi ssd because of my illness. if some has a answer for me plz let me know that youAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:12 PM on Sep. 6, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by SAHMomOf3 at 3:14 PM on Sep. 6, 2010
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Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 3:19 PM on Sep. 6, 2010
Depends on the state that you are living in and filing for divorce in. I was told after ten years the person that makes less should be vested (alimony). Check out your state laws.
Answer by elly25 at 3:19 PM on Sep. 6, 2010
Answer by togo90210 at 3:19 PM on Sep. 6, 2010
Most states don't have alimony or spousal support anymore. There is no fault divorce and child support and that's it. Find out online if your state had alimony or spousal support. If you have kids see a lawyer and he may have to pay your living expenses during the divorce process. You have to live in a state a certain amount of time before you can divorce, you can find that online. It could be a year or more. He could have had you move to a no alimony state and if you don't have kids you are just out of luck.
I'm not sure what you mean by ssi ssd. I'm disabled and get just ssi, $675 a month. If you can figure out how to live on it then let me know. If you don't have kids the most anyone on ssi can get in food stamps is $10 a month. I've been on a section 8 waiting list for 2 years and it may be 4 more.
Answer by Gailll at 3:24 PM on Sep. 6, 2010
Answer by tasches at 5:31 PM on Sep. 6, 2010