How do you get your SO to stop stressing about all the work he has to do. My SO is a beef rancher, and has a lot of responsibility.. The cows are our livelyhood...but he stresses about everything... how much hay he has, if the cows have enough mineral, if the calves are growing the way that they should...I try to help him out as much as I can with a 2 yr old running around... There's always meals on the table whenever he gets in(most of the time its after dark), the house is always clean, I rake hay for him, and give the cows mineral when he asks me to.... which he also has a very difficult time actually asking for any kind of help at all, I pretty much have to beg him to help.
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 5:06 PM on Sep. 8, 2010
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Answer by bjane01 at 3:35 PM on Sep. 6, 2010
Sometimes that's just the way people deal with things. Some act stressed, but it's their way. Is his Dad like that? He may know of no other way with dealing with everything other than acting stressed. You sure are at his back in helping him, not much more you can do, but just listen. It would be nice if he could change his way of excepting things and start pro-acting instead of reacting. You can't change him hon, he has too. Sounds like you got a great caring guy tho.
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