My ex just doesn't understand the importance of structure and setting a routine schdule. He thinks its okayy to constantly not follow the court agreement. He thinks he can bring them back whenever he wants and he isn't allowed to do that. There is no disciple at his home. His parents watch them while he sleeps during the day cuz he wrks nights. I'm just not ok with the lack of structure. It is the best interest for my children if they stay with me full time and he has them every other weekend instead. Currently he takes the Thursday nights at 530 until Sunday evenings at 530. This is wht the court ordered a year ago, and he doesn't follow it.. someone please give me advice! Thanks!Answer Question
Answer by kamsmommy17 at 2:31 AM on Sep. 7, 2010
Not everyone would agree with you about structure. I think too much structure can be bad for kids. If he isn't bringing them back when he is supposed to now there is no reason to believe he would bring them back when he is supposed to if custody was changed. It can cost thousands of dollars and be difficult on everyone to try and change a court order. You might try being more flexible or mediation before considering getting lawyers involved.
Answer by Gailll at 2:37 AM on Sep. 7, 2010
Answer by voni681 at 10:52 AM on Sep. 7, 2010