I have a question and I am having a personal struggle over this. The father of my child has court ordered visitation on Monday and Tuesday with out daughter. He keeps changing his story as to why his days have to change. Now here is my reasoning for not wanting days to change. Am I being unreasonable?
-First our daughter. I believe she needs consistency and stability in her life. If Mondays and Tuesdays are her days with Dad I believe it should be a consistent thing. Not randomly changing it on her. The situation is already confusing to her and I believe she needs as much stability as is possible.
-then my mom watches her while I am at work and plans her schedule around his days sometimes months in advance (doctors appts for ex). He needs to take into consideration the other parties daily lives.
-she'll be going into and actual daycare part time and will have specific days/friends etc. Its not healthy to constantly change
Asked by Anonymous at 12:50 PM on Sep. 7, 2010 in Toddlers (1-2)
Answer by princessbeth79 at 12:54 PM on Sep. 7, 2010
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Answer by wendy46121 at 1:12 PM on Sep. 7, 2010
No, not like you are describing. I believe they need consistency in discipline and such, but not so much that the days have to be specific. Really, nothing in life is that consistent anyway.
Answer by m-avi at 1:15 PM on Sep. 7, 2010
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Answer by Rosesandlilys at 2:16 PM on Sep. 7, 2010