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Anyone ever feel undesirable?

i'm 31 and a single mom. And I swear I don't get a second glance. lol Do i smell funny or something?


Asked by istealcookies at 3:30 PM on Sep. 7, 2010 in Relationships

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  • It's been a common occurance for me. I'm sure it happens to everyone at some point.
    You just have to be happy with yourself and who you are. There are always going to be days when you feel "Ick", but you just have to remember what's great about you. It's true that you'll never be happy with someone else if you're not happy with yourself first.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 4:13 PM on Sep. 7, 2010

  • its all body language. people can see the lack of confidence and it draws them away. you need to go out and be fun and confident and don't wait for ppl to come to's 2010 after all

    Answer by aliishott2 at 3:33 PM on Sep. 7, 2010

  • not dont worry im 20 and i feel the same way all the time

    Answer by Runt420 at 3:32 PM on Sep. 7, 2010

  • Im 25 and feel the same way

    Answer by Shannon706 at 3:33 PM on Sep. 7, 2010

  • all i can say is that men are visual creatures. with that in mind be visually appealing to them if thats what your looking for

    Answer by Zoeyis at 3:35 PM on Sep. 7, 2010

  • Im 23.. & 25 weeks pregnant! Heck yah, I feel undesirable! Just be confident, get a new hair style or do you makeup differently.. Perk up Buttercup, your Romeo will come along! =)

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 3:44 PM on Sep. 7, 2010

  • Yup everyday at one point or another :-/

    Answer by Finkette at 3:32 PM on Sep. 7, 2010

  • I feel undesirable alot. ofcourse I'ml ike 40lbs over weight too.... but it happens. and somedays I feel like I'm a sexy ass bitch! lol

    Answer by MsLouLou at 3:34 PM on Sep. 7, 2010

  • I'm 25 and feel the same way... Although I just moved to AZ from CA. I swear all the guys notice me here.... Strange!

    Answer by TessaHoney at 3:36 PM on Sep. 7, 2010

  • Almost daily. Even on my good days, I don't really get a second glance. If I do, I don't notice it. I'm not gorgeous, but I'm not the hunchback either. I'm an average gal, and I never get hit on or asked to dance, etc. Never have. I'm in a relationship, and I still feel undesirable most of the time.

    Answer by MeandMyBabes at 6:00 PM on Sep. 7, 2010