Ok, So I really wanted a VBAC. I had hypertension with my first pregnancy and had to have an emergency c-section at 36 wks. Afterwards, I felt terribly deprived of the opportunity to give birth to my son, like I had been robbed of that experience...so I really wanted a VBAC this time around.
We just had our first Dr's Appt. And apparently the local hospital doesn't do VBACs, for insurance reasons. I feel like I'm being robbed of that experience all over again. The closest hospital that does do VBACs is an hour away, and known to not be the best hospital...the next one is two hours away, and not plausible for prenatal care checkups or delivery. Why is it even an option for Insurance companies to deny hospitals the ability to perform them? How do I cope with the loss of this experience...I've dreamt of giving birth naturally since I was a child..I always wanted to have a baby the natural way..and I may never get the chance.
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