my dh thinks I am spending to much time on CM and I am becoming a bitch or whatever or since I went back to work 1 of the 2 or both. Do you think being on CM makes you become more of a bitch? He wants to shut the internet off even. I feel like this is all I have is the internet friends I have no outside friends. He reads his magaizines, he plays on the computer, ebay, games he's not into porn and he does his man things like demos & such & he smokes. I seem to only have my dd my work & the internet.
Is he trying to be controlling or what do you think? I think it's long and complicated and we haven't had sex in a long time. I think he's a great provider, hes also a great lover but I just don't want to have sex either lots of things going on there also he's not cheated to my knowledge.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:20 PM on Sep. 7, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by kamore at 5:31 PM on Sep. 7, 2010
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Answer by MzGeorgiaPeach at 6:49 PM on Sep. 7, 2010
Look at how much time you spend on CM compared to time with him. If you two love to be online consider buying another computer or laptop so you two can sit side by side and talk as you play lol. Life is all about finding a compromise both can be a little happy with. You should not have to give up your CM all together but look to see if there is any truth to what he is saying.
Answer by SylviaNCali at 7:11 PM on Sep. 7, 2010
Answer by txdaniella at 8:31 PM on Sep. 7, 2010
I think its very possible for CM to affect you in real life, so no I doubt he's being controlling. I know when I was in a bunch of debate groups, I was always in more of a combative mood. My husband pointed this out to me and I stopped CM for a while....and viola! I was less combative pretty quickly. If you don't have friends outside the Internet, then make some. Look for play groups in your area, go to the park, library story times, mall...there's all kinds of places to meet new friends.
Answer by hobbitswife04 at 9:20 PM on Sep. 7, 2010