I am just wondering if this is normal ... my son is 11 months old and recently everything my DH does and even sometimes the sound of his voice makes me cringe. I am wondering if this sometimes happens after having a baby - where the love of your life, your SO had all your attention and now it's more focused on your child ? and now they drive you up a wall?? none of the stuff that is bugging me is new stuff - it's just HIM!!
Answer by louise2 at 12:53 PM on Oct. 14, 2008
Answer by jespeach at 12:51 PM on Oct. 14, 2008
It is completely normal. And if you pay closer attention your SO isn't the only one out there that will make you cringe...lol! like louis2 said it changes your out look on the world. You'll notice things you thought were funny are just plan stupid. Things you thought were fun are way to risky now. And like jespeach said try to remember the things that made you fal in love with him in the first place, and it does take around a year for your hormones to go back to normal, I would try to have some alone time with your SO and see if you can't get some sparks going again. But it is completely normal.
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