I had sex with who at the time was my best friend. Got pregnant. But at the time he was supposed to be in love with me I wrote about this when that happen. A month ago. When I found out I was pregnant at first he wanted to know if I wanted an abortion, then he didn't want to be apart of the kids life, but he would pay cs. I was cool with that. He really wanted to get with this girl and was afraid she would leave him. He told her, she is cool with it and now he wants to take responsibility. He did a complete 180 on his decision and I dont know if I want him there. He said he grew a concious (over night) but really it feels like to me he is OK with this cause it wont affect his social standing. He lives a few states away so it isnt like he could be there anyway. I told him my kid isnt something he can just be involved with him his social status permits and I would rather he not be there. Am I in the wrong?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:05 AM on Sep. 8, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by conweis at 9:18 AM on Sep. 8, 2010
He sounds like he changes his mind regularly. I wouldn't worry about any of it until the child is born and then see where he stands and what you want then. You have at least 8 more months for him to be wishy-washy about it.
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