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Do you find it tacky to ask people to vote up your answers or bump your questions?

Maybe it's not as important to everyone else as it is to you?
Why does your opinion deserve more attention than someone elses?
Are you going to change anything?
Are you that absorbed in points or credits or whatever they are?
If it is such an engaging subject why isn't it getting bumped up on it's own?

I guess I would rather have my bumps and thumbs up be genuine, not prompted because I think I deserve it.


Asked by Anonymous at 11:28 AM on Sep. 8, 2010 in About CafeMom

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Answers (16)
  • i would rather have genuine vote ups and bumps too : )
    i would feel like a little beggar on the street, if i were to ask for the bumps or vote ups.

    Answer by happy2bmom25 at 11:32 AM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • doesn't matter, but i guess it could be seen that way. I don't see why it would be important, nothing happens

    Answer by Zoeyis at 11:30 AM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • No, but, I do find it tacky when one comes to those questions and post nasty remarks ANON. That is what is severely tacky.

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 11:31 AM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • I'm with you, but I'm not "playing the game." I don't blame the ones that are playing, they just want to increase their standing.

    Answer by Scuba at 11:31 AM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • Most of these are separated into a category just for people that want to do it, so No, it doesn't bother me.

    Answer by lovinangels at 11:33 AM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • can you all vote me up because i am out of coffee and i need a boost

    just kidding around...tacky to ask, no...just kind of silly

    Answer by fiatpax at 11:33 AM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • Whatever. I could care less. It's not like my neighbor is coming over and asking me to tell her how beautiful and popular she is, is it? It's the computer, this is the internet. If it makes someone's day, than go for it. The world is full of challenges and competitions, so why not?!

    Answer by m-avi at 11:34 AM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • No some people just want to get more points are have an important issue

    Answer by conweis at 11:31 AM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • I would rather my votes be genuine. I don't see the point really. My opinion is just my opinion, it's not gonna change theh world or anything!lol

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 11:34 AM on Sep. 8, 2010

  • I did nothing to get reported for Miss ANON. You chose to post nastiness in ANON on MY question.

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 11:35 AM on Sep. 8, 2010